Facts you should not share on a first date
Facts you should not share on a first date

When you are on a date for the first time, your main objective should be to enjoy yourself, and try not to embarrass yourself. This can be difficult to do, especially when your stomach feels like it is tied in knots. Although, you may want to share some things with your date, there are certain things you should never reveal if you are hoping for a second date.

Would You Like To See My Place?

Even though you may not use those exact words, it is the general idea that matters. Do not make any kind of suggestive comments, or ask any suggestive questions that can be taken the wrong way. It is generally a bad idea to become physically intimate on the first date.

I Do Not Like What I Do For a Living

This may be true, but try not to sound so negative on the first date. Chances are the other person is looking to enjoy themselves, and they do not want to be in the same company with someone that is so pessimistic. Keep the conversation light.

You and I Will Definitely Be Friends

Never say this unless you are absolutely sure that you are not attracted to your date. This statement is sure to keep your relationship at the friend level forever. Some people do use dating websites just to find new friends, but that is extremely rare. You are on the date to find a potential companion.

Asking Someone to Marry You

It may sound strange, but it does happen more often than you may think. It can be hard to control intense feelings, and it may be love at first site, but it is important to keep a clear perspective.

Do Not Lie

Just because you may think your life is as boring as a rice cake does not mean that you should exaggerate the truth. Being honest on the first date is refreshing, and you want someone to like you for the real you. You do not want them to fall for someone that you are pretending to be.

You Are a Recovering Addict

Many people have struggled with and conquered different issues in their life. This can be a highly sensitive and personal topic that you should wait to disclose when you have known the person longer.

Your Last Relationship Ended Badly

The less you talk about past relationships, the better. It will create an aura of mystery about you. Instead, pay attention to the date you are currently on. Listen intently to them as they talk with you, and get to know them better.

Your Current Financial Situation

Some people equate a person’s character on how much money they do or do not have. On your first date, you want the person to like you for who you are, not what is in your wallet. Do not mention anything like buying expensive cars, or how many packs of Ramen noodles you ate last week.

This is just a small list of things that should avoid discussing during your first date. Make sure to be yourself and enjoy yourself. Everything else will fall into place.

By Haba Naija Admin

Temi Odurinde worked in domain name registration and web hosting industry for many years before becoming a web entrepreneur. He is passionate about web and mobile technologies. Temi contribute mainly to Haba Naija Internet and Technology sections. He has a BSc in Computing and Psychology, a postgraduate degree in Internet Technologies. Outside work, he love Oral Storytelling, long distance running and playing Volleyball.